SOLACE
For the man who has achieved everything except permission to be enough, exactly as he already is.
A 90 Minute Somatic Masterclass
SATURDAY | JULY 6TH | 2PM EST VIA ZOOM
This is for a very specific man.
It is for the one’s who have achieved something most others have not.
Whether its a career, skillset, level of financial prosperity, artistic expression or physical development…you can get things done.
You know how to push yourself.
You know how to figure shit out.
You make it work, and eventually find a way.
On the outside, it likely looks like you have it together.
But underneath the drive to achieve and grow, there is a gnawing sensation growing on the inside.
No matter what you do, it is never enough. The sense of achievement lasts for a moment, and then you are back fixing yourself.
Figuring out how to heal, integrate and ‘fix’ the next thing inside of you.
If that’s you, I guarantee you’ve experienced this:
She brings something up, gently, and your jaw tightens before she's even finished the sentence. Not because she's wrong. Because some part of you just heard "you failed."
You go quiet. Not because you don't care; because you need space to figure out the right thing to say. She feels the distance. You feel the pressure of getting it right building in your chest.
Later that night, you're googling "how to communicate better with your partner" instead of actually being in the room with her.
You replay the conversation in your head for an hour afterward, auditing yourself. Did I say that right? Did I come across defensive? Should I have said it differently?
You fix the immediate problem. The relief lasts a day, maybe two. Then something else needs fixing.
It’s the same pattern that shows up in work. You hit the number, land the role, finish the project, and you're already scanning for what's next before the win has even settled in your body.
And you’re trying to solve this problem from your mind which keeps you spiraling out in this loop for days, sometimes even weeks.
There is an irony here…
The very thing that drives you to succeed and grow, is the very thing that is keeping you imprisoned in a sense of never being enough.
The incessant need to optimize and refine is what is actually driving your inner work and healing practices. You are constantly sending yourself the signal that ‘something is wrong’ and ‘needs to be fixed’ which creates an endless loop of self development. You cannot perfect your way out of perfectionism.
The wound: not feeling like enough.
The protection: become exceptional so no one could reject you.
The trap: healing must be done ‘correctly’ which fuels the original wound that you are not enough if you don’t do it right.
So you bring the same ‘do or die’ energy into your inner work and wonder why you never find the solace you are looking for.
Every book. Every framework. Every breakthrough that didn't quite land. This is why.
So, why is this work different?
We are not trying to ‘fix another problem’.
We are going to access the part of you that was never a problem to begin with.
WHAT YOU WILL RECEIVE:
This isn't another framework.
You already have the frameworks. You can probably recite the attachment styles, the polyvagal theory, the five love languages in your sleep. None of it has fully landed, because you've been trying to think your way out of a pattern that doesn't live in your thinking.
In this session, we go underneath it.
You'll learn to recognize, in real time, when you're trying to heal from the same survival drive that's keeping you stuck, the same perfectionism, the same need to get it right, now aimed at your own growth.
Then we go into the body. A guided process to help you feel, directly, what it's like when you're not performing, not fixing, not auditioning. Even briefly. Even for a few minutes.
That taste is the proof. Once your system feels what solace actually is, you can't unknow it. You'll have a felt reference point, not just another idea to add to the pile.
You'll leave with a simple, specific practice you can use the next time you feel yourself bracing, whether it's with her, at work, or in your own head.
You will be able to take this practice and apply it in real time in your relationship and in your work. You will start to unwind the perfectionism trap at the root.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF…
You're already a Man doing the work, you're not new to therapy, somatic practices, or self-development. You're past the point of needing convincing that inner work matters.
You're high-functioning. Successful, capable, respected. From the outside, no one would guess this is happening underneath.
You're in or want to be in a relationship where you can actually show up, not just manage and perform your way through it.
You're tired of optimizing your way to a feeling that never arrives.
This isn't for you if…
You're looking for someone to convince you that your body and emotions matter. You already know that.
You're in active crisis or currently unable to function in daily life. This work requires enough stability to meet what comes up; if you're not there yet, reach out and I can point you toward the right support first.
You want another framework to add to the pile. This isn't more information. It's a somatic experience.
If you're still reading, I’d wager that this is for you.
This is your invitation into solace.
SOLACE
Saturday, July 6th | 1PM EST
Space is intentionally capped so there's room for an intimate process where I can track each of you, not just talk at you.
You already know if this is you.
The only question left is whether you keep doing this alone, in your head, one more book, one more framework, one more attempt to think your way out of a pattern that was never going to respond to thinking.
Or whether you take 90 minutes to finally feel what's been on the other side of all that effort the entire time.
MEET YOUR GUIDE:
Michael Angelo
Working with an aligned mentor & guide is the difference between taking 5-10 years to get somewhere versus 1-2. It is an invitation to collapse timelines.
This immersion is a taste. You will touch something true, something deep, something real. But do not be confused, this is a path. & on this path, if you choose to walk with me, I will be your initiation guide.
So why me? What are my ‘credentials’? First off, I want you to feel your instinct. Your gut. When you tune into my work and this page — are you called? If so, my invitation is to trust that. Trust your knowing.
With that being said, I have been walking the path of embodied transformation and applied spiritual awakening for well over a decade and have been teaching for the past 6 years. My number one philosophy when it comes to inner work, if it doesn’t filter down into your relationships, your self image and how you meet life everyday — then it is simply a masturbation. Throw it out the window.
I could give you the list of the receipts of what I have walked through with this work — capital T trauma, psychosis, massive addiction, suicidality, horrible relational patterns with women, you name it — but what I want you to know is that I have walked through the valley of death and come out the other side, many times. I know the territory very, very well. There is almost nothing you could bring to the table that I cannot meet you in.
I spent years banging my head against the wall doing all of the 'embodiment' work and it was all bullshit. Nothing shifted until I learned how to create deeper safety, attunement and containment in my own somatic experience. This is that work.
Welcome, brother...to SOLACE.
